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By C-Dub, May 24, 2009 6:18 PM

One of the main concepts of I’ve learned from Inner Confidence is the importance of the ability to manage tension. Being a man who is solid and unfazed in the depths of a tense situation is immensely attractive to women. Examples could be something simple like how you handle a “no” from a woman to how you respond to a car accident. Are you flustered and discombobulated or are you calm, cool, and collected.

Firemen are prime examples of men that can manage tension. What they do for a living is run into dangerous burning buildings and rescue women and children. As a man, I appreciate, admire, and respect what firemen can do. From a woman’s perspective, firemen are HOT! Continue reading 'Managing and NOT Releasing Tension'»

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By C-Dub, May 19, 2009 10:54 AM

I was driving home one night and I remember the Inner Confidence guys suggesting an exercise to manage conflict is to go buy something and return it. So I’m on the way home and see a CVS Pharmacy. Let’s go in and see what I could find.

I walk into the store and knew that I had to buy something that I don’t need because that will force me to return it. I know, let’s go get some tampons. As I’m walking in, there’s a line here too, so this is going to be weird if people are watching.

Anyways, I finally found the feminine care aisle and picked up a box of tampons. By the time I get to the cashier, thank goodness all those 7 people in line when I walked in are finally gone. I walked up to the register and an older woman named Norma in her 50s or 60s rings me up.

Norma: That’ll be $4.25.
Me: Here’s a $5.
Norma: I don’t have any quarters, so here’s a quarter and some dimes.
Me: OK. By the way, I don’t need that bag, thanks [because I'm going to come back and return it].

I grabbed my receipt, change, and tampons and take 3 steps to leave. On the third step, I pause, turn around, and then walk back to the counter. Continue reading 'Don’t Need Tampons'»