Talk Dirty to Me, Baby!
So now that I can reasonably approach women for dating purposes, whether running around doing errands during the day or in bars, clubs, and lounges at night, my next level of improvement is my ability to show more direct interest in a woman and be more sexual.
But before I dive deeper into that, I’ll explain what I mean about direct interest and sexuality. Without having these two qualities as a man, a guy will eventually end up in the friend zone with a woman and never have the opportunity to have any sexual relationship with her. A man may be able to have a fun conversation with a woman and generate interest and attraction, but won’t get any farther if he is unable to show that she turns him on as a fine sexy woman. (And from a woman’s perspective, who doesn’t want to be a desirable and beautiful creature.) So that’s where I’m at right now – I can talk to women, but my biggest challenge at the moment is getting over the fear of putting my balls on the line, risking rejection, and showing women that I am sexually attracted to them as a man.
To show my sexual interest, I can do it using body language and physical touch, but the one specific area I’d like to experiment and work on right now is learning how to talk dirty to a woman. Now I’m sure different women have different thresholds of what’s sexy talk to them, but I’d like to cultivate my range of dirty talk. I’d like to be able to articulately and seductively turn a woman on by just using my words.
So in order to do that, how does a guy get good at this stuff? Is there phone sex training/school for guys? I suppose I can call a phone sex line, but that’ll be a costly exercise. As I was brushing my teeth, I had an idea: Craigslist! Now I don’t have much experience with Craigslist. But from talking to other people, it’s either a miracle or disaster. So let’s experiment and see what happens.
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I configured my Google Voice phone number to forward to my cell phone and will be posting the following ad in the adult services section:
Are You a Woman Who Thinks She’s Good at Phone Sex?
Then come give me a shot. I’m an Asian male in my late 20’s and grew up in a traditional Asian household that did NOT talk about sex. I never had the birds and the bees talk and had a pretty sheltered life growing up.
So why am I posting this ad? Because as a man, I need to be more sexual and dominant and learn how to talk dirty to a woman. So if you think you’re any good at phone sex or think you can show me a thing or two, then I dare you to call me.
If you want to block your caller ID, then press the *67 before dialing my phone number: 424-645-1411. If I happen to miss your call, then leave me a sexy message.
Let’s see what you got.
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How did it go man?